Sorry in advance, but this is long and confusing.  There's a summary at the bottom, if you'd like to skip to it:

Bobby has 4 brothers, and I'm an only child.  We were originally going to have them be his GM, and I'd pick my BFF for my MOH and 3 other friends for my bridesmaids.  Well, I had 2 really good friends, and the 3rd I was stuck on.  I asked a mutual friend of ours (the only real mutual friend we have, plus she was already good friends with his brother).  

Then brother J begged me to add his gf (now fiancee, getting married this September), well I caved and added her.  I asked Bobby if he had someone he could ask, and he asked a friend (to be his BEST MAN, although he doesn't talk to him as much, just because he couldn't choose between his brothers).  So our sides are even right?  Well, no, not really.  

Brother B was then offended that I asked J's girlfriend (now fiancee) even though B has been living together with long-time gf, who I get along with better anyway.  Well, yeah I'd choose B's gf over J's gf for sure since I talk to her a lot more and actually do things with her.  So, hell, why not both?  

Well, now Brother A is getting married apparently.  He met this girl back in HS and started dating her 2 weeks before bootcamp started (5/3).  Well, this girl is setting up an appointment to look at dresses next week and my MIL and I are the only people going with her.  Um... yeah I know it's sudden, and it probably won't last, but oh well we'll see.  Well, if it does and they do get marriend, I kind of have to add her since I added J's "wife" and B's gf.  

Summary:I should have just said no from the very beginning to J's gf.  Bobby will probably add 2 of our guy friends to make it even, and we'll end up with 7 BM's and 7 GM's.  Not to mention, we don't know if Brother A will even be on leave from the Army for the wedding.  

I have a headache now, as I'm sure anyone who actually read this whole thing does as well.  Ughhhhhhhh...

I designed label sticker things to go around our wedding bubbles (tutorial on DIY page).  I downloaded the template from Vistaprint, designed them, and ordered them.  They were free!  All I had to pay was 3.96 for shipping.  It feels very good to have something done in terms of DIY.  I know it's a little early, but I want to get a lot of this done now so I don't end up with a million things to do later.  As small and probably unnoticeable as this is, I'm glad to get it done.  Here's why I can't get started on my other projects yet:


STD's (Save-the-dates, not the diseases): Sounds like we might be buying this or another trailer within the next three months.  I'm planning on designing our own postcard STD's, and postcards have addresses printed on them.   I'd hate for them to go out and read 123 Maple when we live at 234 Oak.  That would just suck.

Invites: We haven't booked the Church yet.  It seems like a pretty important thing to have done.  I'd hate to have 100 invitations bought, printed, and ready to go and find out my Church is unavailable for whatever reason.  

Programs: One of the groomsmen is going into the service.  We have no way of knowing if he will even be in our state next July.  This sucks, too.  

Hmm, I got the easiest thing I could have possibly done out of the way.  What else is next?